I loved Untamed, but as I thought back on the book and all the self-help geared towards women, I realized most of them had one thing in common: The turning point in a woman's life hinged on falling in love or, even more so, having children. This realization made me MAD. On a deep, deep level.

I used to be the classic over-doer. I over-did EVERYTHING. School, work, exercise - even fun! And then I realized I didn't want to keep living that way. So I dug in. And I let go. Here are the top three things that are different TODAY from when I was living in constant over-doer, proving mode.