I’m seeing a TON of podcasts and emails right now about doing a deep dive not just into the last year, but the last DECADE. And then planning your big goals and dreams for the next year – or decade – of life.
I’m all about reflecting. And I’m all about big dreams. I have an entire day blocked off next week for reflection and strategic planning for 2020.
But I also know it’s easy to look back and instead of seeing what you’re proud of, you see all the places you feel behind. And then that feeling quadruples when you starting thinking about the future and some imaginary point when you’ll finally be have it all together and be complete.
I had a client recently tell me that she didn’t feel like she could rest until she was fully formed. Like she wasn’t already enough in this moment.
Have you ever felt like that? Like you just need the better job or a revenue level and then you will have made it. Or you need to get married. Or have kids. Or buy a house. Or lose 20 pounds.
Just one more thing and then you will be enough.
I’m here to say YOU ARE ALREADY ENOUGH.
You are both whole and constantly forming at the same time.
You are already amazing. And you are developing and learning every single day.
You have nothing to prove. You can stop hustling and take a breath.
You deserve to feel good on the journey – because it’s all a journey.
I’ll say it again. You are already enough.
Remember this as you reflect on the last year and dream your dreams for 2020.